Mr. Struble

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Conflict Resolution - Bullying

• Mr. Struble

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Do Now

• Scenario
• You find a note book in the hallway. You open it
  up to look for a name and you find that its
  Timmys notebook from you World History class.
  You open up to the back of the book and see
  messages scattered over the back page. I hate
  school, I hate my life, Steve is a jerk and
  if he keeps pushing me in the hall and picking on
  me the locker room, I am tired of it all, so
  unhappy.

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Conflict Resolution Review

• What is a conflict?
• Struggle between or among people resulting from
  incompatible or opposing needs, wishes or
  demands.
• Arise?
• Family, Friends, work and social relationships
• How do you resolve a conflict?
• Non Violent effective communication between the
  people involved
• Identify- Understand each point of view- Explore
  solutions -Determine a solution and method
• Peer mediation third person

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Bullying

• Bullying defined - unlike isolated conflicts
  between individuals, occurs when a student or
  group of students targets an individual
  repeatedly over time, using physical or
  psychological aggression to dominate the victim.
• Bullying is
• Repeated
• Intentional
• Used to create an imbalance of power

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Bullying Types(Direct)

• Physical
• - Hitting, Pushing, Property destruction,
  Shoving
• Verbal
• - Taunting, Teasing, Name Calling
• Non-Verbal
• - Gestures, Staring, Spatial invasion

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Bullying(Indirect)

• Physical
• getting another person to assault someone
• Verbal
• Spreading rumors about a person
• Non Verbal
• Excluding a person from a group

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Cyber bullying

• What is it?
• How many of you have facebook?
• How many of you seen messages or experienced
  anything on the web that can categorize as
  bullying?
• 47 of older youth 18-24 have been cyber bullied

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Bullying Video Clip

• Video Clip
• What are some things that could have happened if
  he didnt seek help? Short Term/Long Term?
• Do you think the bullying continues?

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Bullying Effects

• Short Term
• Lower self esteem, depression, anger, sick,
  absenteeism
• As many as 160,000 students stay home on any
  given day because they're afraid of being bullied
• Long Term
• Severe Depression, Suicidal intentions, unhealthy
  (Physical, Mental, Social, Emotional)
• Bully
• Bullies are 4 times as likely to have 3 or more
  convictions by the age of 24

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Bullying Class Activity

• Read Text with class.

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Bullying Prevention

• Step in, dont allow it.
• More than half the time a bully situation is
  addressed by a peer, the situation is diffused.
• 80 of the time a argument with a bully will end
  in a physical fight
• Tell an adult or teacher
• victim, bystander or the bully
• Peer Mediation
• Third Person who helps resolve disputes

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HIB Policy for Raritan

• Consequences

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Exit Quiz

• Meaning of the word empathy?
• Two Consequences for Bullying?
• What did you take from the lesson today?
• HW Review HIB Policy on Raritan Homepage