Title: Your Semester SelfChange Project
1Your Semester Self-Change Project
- Due on Friday, December 7, 2007
- Noon in The Box
2Setting Goals
- Weve talked about ways of seeing the world
(worldviews) - Through your view you determine what is relevant,
meaningful, important - Worldviews are a product of values and
experiences through which we form habits - Our worldviews dont change easily BUT
- Our perspectives habits can change with work
keep what is working change what isnt
3- Weve talked about Relationships
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We asked you to think about the kind of
relationships you want to build with those with
whom you work, live, love. Reflect on your
relationship role models Reflect on your
habits and how you deal with
people What kind of life do you want to build
and what kind of people do you want to have in it?
4Is there something to work on?
- Making lasting friendships
- Surrounding yourself with positive people
- Building Trust
- Expressing anger appropriately
- Being assertive without being aggressive
- Saying no
- Talking through feelings disappointments
- Depression Screening
5Weve talked about the relationship you have with
Exercise and Food.
- We asked you to think about what feels good for
your body, how to energize it and how to fuel it
through food, rest, and movement
6Is There Something to Work On?
- Finding time to exercise
- Building an exercise routine
- Increasing exercise variety
- Eating consistently nutritious meals
- Eating less sugar
- Eating appropriate volumes of foods
- Decreasing empty calories (like alcohol)
- Getting appropriate sleep
7Weve Talked About Sex
- We ask you to think about not only what feels
good to you now but -- - what is responsible and safer?
- what is healthy for you --
- emotionally, physically, spiritually
- what is good for your partner?
- what is good for your future?
8Is There Something to Work On?
- Learning what is sacred or cherished
- Practicing communicating with prospective
partner. - Learning your parameters
- Taking necessary precautions every time
- Discovering what is right for expressing your
sexuality in terms of emotionally, physically,
spiritually, intellectually--
9 Weve Asked You to Think About Money
- We All Have a Money History
- We Have Role Models
- Positive and Negative ideas about what money is
and what it is not - There are many different views on prosperity and
how to have it - What is enough and how much do you need to
survive, thrive, and be fulfilled?
10Is There Something to Work On?
- Taking Better Care of What You Do Have
- Learning How to Make Money Work
- Becoming Comfortable Talking About Strategies
- Knowing Where Your Money Comes From and Knowing
Where Its Going - Have a Positive View of Prosperity and Your Worth
11What Your Project Will Consist Of--
- Considering all of the elements youve read
about, listened to and though about pick an area
that you know you need to work on, do better on - Follow the Sample Behavior Change Guide to Build
Your Plan - Make sure your goal gives you enough to work with
12Your Behavior Change Package Will Include
- Up to 5 Value Statements
- A Mission Statement
- One Goal Statement
- Three Objectives for Your Goal
- A Statement about Your Barriers
- A Log Covering What Youve Attempted for 4 Weeks
until December 7, 2007
131. Writing Value Statements
- Reflect on what is important to you in your life.
- Create statements (each usually one thought) of
what you want your life to convey. - Write short, concise statements saying what you
really value regarding yourself and what you want
to represent.
14Value Statements
- Creating value statements is an exercise in
defining what you cherish - I value meaningful interaction with my children.
- I value pursuing fun and humor.
- I value appreciating beauty in the natural world.
- I value understanding the meaning of this human
experience through my relationship with God - I value pursuing an excellent performance.
152. Create A Mission Statement for Your Life
- A mission statement should say who you are, what
you do, what you stand for, and why you do it. - An effective mission statement is best developed
by considering all the dimensions of yourself and
what you find important. - The best mission statements are three to four
sentences long so you can remember them and they
describe YOU. - Avoid making statements about how great you are
focus instead on what you try to do.
16 Mission Statement
- My mission is to live my life with vigorous
passion and positively impact, through active
involvement with, my family, students and peers
encouraging them to achieve their highest sense
of self, and to fulfill myself, while providing
for my family while adhering to the guidance of
Divine Mind (God).
17Sample Mission Statements
- My mission is to balance my life with hard work
doing something I like, great play doing
something I love, and good friends and family to
share all of the good and the bad with. I will
always give the best I have to give in every
situation and try to find the win/win when
dealing with the people I encounter.
18Mission
- My mission is to get good grades so I can get
into medical school while not going crazy doing
it. - My mission is to have fun while Im young, be in
the moment and not worry about future,
responsibility, or regrets and to forgo the
consequences. To live life on my terms, my way.
193. Writing a Goal
- Usually includes words like increase, decrease,
know, improve, and understand. - Are often not measurable in exact terms.
- Goals are not difficult to write and need not be
written as complete sentences. - They should be simple and concise.
20Goals
- Should contain two basic components
- Who will be affected (who will do the work)
- What will change as a result of the planned
program intervention.
21Caution!
- Many times strategies masquerade as goals. To be
sure if your goals are goals keep asking why or
what to get to the overall goal. - Intrinsic goals are more likely to be met than
extrinsic or systemic ones.
22Examples of Personal Goals
- I will lose thirty pounds by June 2007 so that I
will feel comfortable wearing my bathing suit by
Noahs Ark time. - I will become more organized in my life and
school work to achieve better grades. - I will rationally explore what is and consume
only a healthy amount of alcohol for me.
23Goals Continued
- I will commit to developing a more mature and
intimate relationship through learning how to
communicate my needs and wants and hearing my
partners needs and wants. - I will exercise three times a week for an hour
mixing cardio (walking) with strength training.
24Write two possible goals for your personal
behavior change project.
- These words may help get you started
- Increase awareness
- Increase knowledge
- Improve skills and abilities
- Improve attitudes
- Reduce consumption
- Stop Start Lose Gain
- Change, alter, rid,
25What is an Objective?
- Objective-a specific blueprint outlining how the
goal will be reached. Objectives are the steps to
be taken in pursuit of a goal. - If the goal is Chocolate Chip Cookies, the recipe
steps are the objectives. - All objectives should be SMART
26SMART Objectives
- S-Specific
- M-Measurable
- A-Attainable
- R-Realistic or Relevant
- T-Timed
27Different Types of Objectives
- Learning
- Behavioral
- Environmental
28Learning Objectives
- Describe what educational or learning tools are
needed to achieve the desired change. - Learning Objectives detail what new information
will be discovered, reviewed, acquired, applied
to you to help alter your behaviors - By Nov. 20th I will work with a personal trainer
to learn how to safely complete an upper body and
lower body circuit workout in the Allen Center as
measured by written step by step workout.
29Learning Objectives Sample
- By November 20 I will go to www.mypyramid.gov
and complete a 3 day food recall of everything I
ate and get a dietary analysis to learn where my
deficiencies are as measured by printing off the
analysis, commenting on it, planning on how to
improve and handing it in with my plan.
30A Sample Learning Objective
- By Nov. 12th, 2007 I will learn what cardio
classes are offered at the Allen Center and
outline a schedule for each week of the plan.
Evidenced will include highlighting the classes
I can go to and turning it in with my plan.
31Learning Objective
- By November 30, 2007 I will check out the book
For Yourself by Lonnie Barbach on developing
intimacy and find three methods suggested by the
author that appeal to me as evidenced by
possession of the book.
32Write a Learning Objective
- For one of your goals, practice writing a
learning objective
33Action or Behavioral Objectives
- This is the do
- This objective spells out what you will actually
perform to address your goal. - I will work out (walk, bike, or swim) three times
a week for 40 minutes each week for 4 weeks as
measured by inputs in my log book.
34 Sample Action Objective
- Until December 9, 2007 I will drink less than 9
beers a week and no more than 3 at any one
sitting as measured by my girlfriend and
initialed in my log. - I will make at least one date my significant
other to be alone we will discuss the methods
chosen from the book For Yourself and implement
at least one as measured by the attempt and
documented by my partner.
35For One of Your Goals
- Write a practice behavioral or action objective
36Environmental Objectives
- A Change in the immediate environment to support
or induce a positive change in behavior - Using the environment to alleviate hazards or
barriers - Removing or adding elements to induce an action
37Sample Environmental Objective
- By November 12, I will remove all the clothes
that do not fit me from my closet and give them
to a shelter or second hand store evidenced by a
tax receipt received from the shelter. - By Tuesday, Nov. 13 I will map out a safe 2 mile
course to run or walk as judged and noted by my
running partner.
38Environmental Objective
- I will remove Toppers from my speed dial so if I
want to order I have to look up the number and
walk to get the food. - By Next Monday I will remove all junk food from
the cupboards and refrigerator and replace it
with healthier alternatives.
39Practice It
- Write an environmental objective for your
practice goal
40Attendance
- Objectives-Describes an action to obtaining the
goal. - S
- M
- A
- R
- T
41Personal Behavior Change Plan
- Personal Mission/Vision Statement
- Value Statements
- Written Statement of Desired Change/Goal
- Three Objectives for Goal
- Discussion of Possible Barriers and Ways to
Address Them - Log/Journal of Daily Efforts to Meet Objectives
42See A Plan
- You will get a sample plan with all of the
elements spelled out. - E-mail -On D2L -On Web site
- Begin thinking about your goal but dont wait too
long to start. - Write your value statements and your mission
statement SOON! - Bring them next week if you want feedback to see
if youre doing it right !
43HELP!?!?
- Visit the Healthy American Assistants for
feedback regarding your goals and objectives
during their office hours. - Monday 11am-2pm 5-7pm
- Tuesday 9-11am 4-730pm
- Wednesday 10am-12noon 2-5pm
- Thursday 9-11am
- Friday 9-12noon
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- Go to the web site front page, scroll down for
times
44- Whats Left for the Semester?????
- Course Syllabus (Healthy American Class)