Title: Presentaci
1FROM SUPPOSED IMMATURITY TO RESPONSIBILITY
GERMÁN CASTELLANO BARCA CONSULTA JOVEN SANTANDER.
TORRELAVEGA. SPAIN
2GERMÁN CASTELLANO BARCA STATES THERE IS NO
CONFLICT OF INTERESTS.
3CHILDREN GROW UNTIL THEY BECOME
ADOLESCENTS. LITTLE CHILDREN MAY HAVE LITTLE
PROBLEMS. BIGGER CHILDREN MAY HAVE BIGGER
PROBLEMS. SOME ADOLESCENTS HAVE PROBLEMS AND
PARENTS HAVE MORE.
4YOUTH IS A VITAL CENTER AND THE GREATEST STRENGTH
EXISTING IN THE WORLD.
5THE ADOLESCENT, THAT UNKNOWN. THE ADOLESCENT IS A
CHANGING REALITY.
THE ADOLESCENT IS A MYSTERY TRAPPED IN AN ENIGMA
WITHIN THE UNKNOWN.
6MATURITY
7THE ADOLESCENT BRAIN
8SEARCHING FOR AN IDENTITY
9UNFOCUSED BORROWED WAITING PERIOD ARRIVING AT AN
IDENTITY MATURE IDENTITY
10LANGUAGE
11ONES OWN SCALE OF VALUES
12ANXIETY IS AN OVERWHELMING WEIGHT. IDENTIFIABLE
IMPACTS UNIDENTIFIABLE IMPACTS
13SADNESS AND LOW SELF-ESTEEM
14FEAR OF FEAR
15COMPLEXES
16REAL OR IMAGINARY FEELINGS
17MALADAPTATION
18PERSISTENT IDEAS, MANIAS, RITUALS
19EGOCENTRISM
20LESBIAN OR GAY
21INVULNERABILITY
22CULMINATION INDEPENDENCE
23ADULTHOOD IN SOME TRIBE
24PETER PAN SYNDROME ADULTESCENTS THE ENDLESS
ADOLESCENCE
25THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN LIFE IS UNDERSTANDING
HOW THE OTHERS SEE YOU. AVOID WASTING TIME.
26AND PARENTS APPEAR IN THIS ADOLESCENT OCEAN
27IMPERFECT PARENTS OR IMPERFECT CHILDREN?
28FAMILY TYPE 6 12 YEARS OLD
PROGRESSIVE, EXTROVERTED FAMILY
23.3 CONSERVATIVE, FAMILY-ORIENTED FAMILY
30.5 CONFLICTIVE FAMILY
15.2 HARMONIOUS, CONVIVIAL
FAMILY 31.8
29STYLE OF UPBRINGING
BASED ON ADOLESCENT CHILDREN REPORTS
30TYPES OF PARENTS
STRICT PARENTS (GREAT SUPPORT AND MANY RULES /
CONTROL) AUTHORITARIAN PARENTS (LITTLE SUPPORT
AND MANY RULES / CONTROL) PERMISSIVE PARENTS
(GREAT SUPPORT AND FEW RULES / CONTROL) CARELESS
PARENTS (LITTLE SUPPORT AND FEW RULES / CONTROL)
31IN 2006 THE NATIONAL YOUNG DRIVE SURVEY EXPLORED
THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN THE STYLE OF UPBRINGING
AND BEHAVIOR WHEN DRIVING IN 5665 STUDENTS. 50
STRICT PARENTS 23 PERMISSIVE PARENTS 19
CARELESS PARENTS 8 AUTHORITATIVE
PARENTS PARENTS ADAPT THE STYLE TO DIFFERENT
CHILDREN. Pediatrics (Sp. ed.) 2009 68(4)163-72
32THE ADOLESCENTS FROM STRICT PARENTS COMPARED TO
THE ONES FROM CARELESS PARENTS HAD HALF THE RISK
OF ACCIDENTS. THE PROBABILITY OF DRIVING UNDER
THE INFLUENCE WAS 71 LESS, AS WELL AS LESS
PROBABILITY OF TALKING ON THE MOBILE PHONE WHILE
DRIVING.
33THE ADOLESCENTS WITH STRICT OR AUTHORITATIVE
PARENTS WORE THEIR SEAT BELT TWICE AS MUCH AS
THOSE WITH CARELESS PARENTS. HALF OF THEM
EXCEEDED THE SPEED LIMIT.
34THERE WERE NO SIGNIFICANT DIFFERENCES IN THE RISK
OF ACCIDENTS OR THE USE OF SEAT BELTS BETWEEN
CHILDREN FROM PERMISSIVE AND CARELESS PARENTS.
35STRICT PARENTS SAY I WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU AND I
WILL GIVE YOU THE FREEDOM YOU EARN, BUT YOU WILL
DO WHAT I SAY IN MATTERS OF SAFETY. AUTHORITATIVE
PARENTS SAY YOU WILL DO IT BECAUSE I SAY SO.
36PERMISSIVE PARENTS SAY I TRUST YOU YOU WILL DO
THE RIGHT THING. CARELESS PARENTS SAY DO
WHATEVER YOU WANT.
37THE ADOLESCENTS FROM STRICT PARENTS BENEFIT THE
MOST. EFFECTIVE CONTROL IS MORE EFFICIENT IN A
SUPPORTING CONTEXT. ACCORDING TO THE AMERICAN
ACADEMY OF PEDIATRICS, HEALTH CARE PROFESSIONALS
SHOULD GET INVOLVED BY PROMOTING SAFETY IN
ADOLESCENTS WHEN DRIVING.
38INVASIVE FRIENDS ABSENT MR. SUCCESS WITHOUT
AUTHORITY
39OVERPROTECTORS PERMISSIVE LENIENT, OR
PERMISSIVE NEGLIGENT EXEMPLARY INSECURE
40PARENTS THAT DO NOT COOPERATE WITH THE
SCHOOL. PARENTS THAT DO NOT ACCEPT CHANGE (THEY
FEEL ENVY, FEAR, THE LOSS OF THE CHILD).
4110 OF PRIVATE DETECTIVES WORK IN SPAIN IS
ADOLESCENT SURVEILLANCE. BOOK TÉCNICAS DE HACKER
PARA PADRES BOOK INTRUSIVE PARENTS
42PROMOTE
RESPONSIBILITY, RESPECT, KINDNESS, HONESTY,
HUMBLENESS, GENEROSITY, COEXISTENCE, PEACE,
TOLERANCE, EFFORT. IT IS NOT BAD TO FEEL SHAMED.
PROMOTE THE LOVE OF BEAUTY, CULTURE, AND FOR
THINGS THAT ARE WELL DONE. THEY SHOULD KNOW THAT
FRUSTRATION IS POSSIBLE AND CAN BE OVERCOME, AND
THAT THE RULES AND LIMITS IMPOSED BY THE PARENTS
LOVING, SHARED, AND RESPONSIBLE AUTHORITY SHOULD
BE ACCEPTED. DEMANDING AND FREEDOM ARE
COMPATIBLE. IT IS WORTHY TO DISCARD EVERYTHING.
43DESPOTIC CHILDREN FROM WEAK PARENTS?
44ALSO
LESS COUCH AND MORE ACTIVITY LESS SCREENS AND
MORE LIVING TOGETHER LESS IMPULSIVE ACTS AND
MORE REFLECTION LESS WARNINGS AND MORE
COMPLIANCE LESS DEMANDS AND MORE
RESPONSIBILITIES LESS NIGHT AND MORE DAY.
45IT IS NOT USEFULL
TO BELIEVE EVERYTHING THEY SAY. TO IMITATE. TO
PREACH. TO RESORT TO ANGER. TO SUPERVISE WITH
PRESSURE. TO SHOW WEAKNESS. TO ATTACK THEIR IDEAS.
46NOT-NOT GENERATION DOES NOT STUDY, DOES NOT
WORK. 14.7 OF THE 20-24 GROUP IN THE 2008
OCDE. IN SOME EU COUNTRIES 20-22 IN 2008.
47EXCELL YOUTH APATHY AND LACK OF CONTROL
48CONSTANT HAPPINESS WOULD BE TERRIBLE THE
ECONOMIC CRISIS MAY BE POSITIVE.
49FOR THE FIRST TIME IN CENTURIES WE FIND A
GENERATION OF YOUTH THAT IS NOT SURE IF THEIR
FUTURE WILL BE BETTER THAN THEIR PARENTS.
50NOTHING NOR ANYBODY CAN PREVENT THEIR SUFFERING,
THE CLOCK TICKING, THEIR OWN DECISIONS, THEIR
MISTAKES, THEIR GROWTH, AND THAT ONE DAY THEY
WILL SAY GOOD BYE. JOAN MANUEL SERRAT (ESOS
LOCOS BAJITOS)